Rites of Way

I create personal, inclusive and unforgettable ceremonies that feel like you not a template, not a performance, but a moment of truth, joy and connection. I take time to truly understand your relationship: your story, your humour, your values, your quirks, your hopes for the day. From there, I craft a personal script that reflects your voice, your love, and the life you’re building together.

I’m happiest creating ceremonies in places that matter to you, your garden, a field, a favourite woodland walk, an Airbnb you’ve fallen in love with, but I’m equally at home leading a ceremony indoors. My ceremonies are inclusive by design. I welcome and celebrate family, friends, chosen family and pets. If someone is important to you, they’re important to the ceremony. Above all, I hold space gently. I bring warmth, calm, and a steady presence so you can relax, breathe, and simply enjoy the moment.

I’m drawn to working with LGBTQ+ couples because inclusivity isn’t a slogan for me, it’s part of my life. I have LGBTQ+ family members, including a drag queen, and I’ve grown up seeing how powerful it is when people are celebrated fully for who they are.

For me, love is love in its purest form: two people choosing each other, choosing joy, choosing a life together. That’s what I want to honour. I bring a calm, reassuring and collaborative presence. I listen deeply, I respect your story, and I work with you to shape a ceremony that feels true to your relationship, not a template or a box you have to fit into. Whether your ceremony is bold, quiet, colourful, simple, outdoors, indoors, surrounded by chosen family, pets, drag queens, or just the two of you I’m here to help you have the ceremony you actually want.

My approach is always collaborative, calm and personal. I want to understand your vision, your relationship, and the atmosphere you want to create and then shape the ceremony with you, not just for you.

I start by getting to know you through a mix of questionnaires, 1‑1 online calls and relaxed conversations. We stay connected in whatever way suits you best, WhatsApp, email, voice notes, shared ideas so the process feels easy and natural. As your ceremony takes shape, I share supporting materials and your evolving script on Google Drive, where you can comment, suggest changes and update details as needed. It becomes a living document we build together, ensuring every word feels right. The result is a ceremony that reflects your story, your values and your personalities, crafted with care, shaped collaboratively, and held with warmth on the day.

I love how a wedding gathers everything that matters into one moment , your family, friends, chosen family, pets, the decorations you’ve dreamed of, the music that lifts the room, the poetry that captures your story, and the vows you speak to each other. When all those elements come together, the energy is incredible. Helping shape that into a ceremony that feels joyful, personal and unforgettable is what I love most.

• Vision call: a relaxed chat where we explore your ceremony ideas, review where you are up to, and identify how I can help. I also do a brief ceremony audit to spot any gaps, worries or decisions you still need to make.
• Ongoing guidance: gentle support throughout your planning, including advice on structure, flow, timings, rituals, readings and music.
• Vow support booklet: a simple, reassuring guide to help you write vows that feel personal and true to your relationship.
• Calm ceremony guide: grounding tips to help you feel steady, confident and relaxed on the day.
• Themed or ritual based ceremonies: from symbolic gestures to cultural elements, I help you weave meaning into your ceremony in a way that feels authentic.
• Language support: I can speak parts of your ceremony in other languages if some of your guests do not speak English, helping everyone feel included.
• Shared Google Drive workspace: your ceremony script and supporting materials are stored in one place where you can comment, update and collaborate easily.
• Vision call — a relaxed chat where we explore your ceremony ideas, review where you are up to, and identify how I can help. I also do a brief ceremony audit to spot any gaps, worries or decisions you still need to make.
• Ongoing guidance — gentle support throughout your planning, including advice on structure, flow, timings, rituals, readings and music.
• Vow support booklet — a simple, reassuring guide to help you write vows that feel personal and true to your relationship.
• Calm ceremony guide — grounding tips to help you feel steady, confident and relaxed on the day.
• Themed or ritual based ceremonies — from symbolic gestures to cultural elements, I help you weave meaning into your ceremony in a way that feels authentic.
• Language support — I can speak parts of your ceremony in other languages if some of your guests do not speak English, helping everyone feel included.
• Shared Google Drive workspace — your ceremony script and supporting materials are stored in one place where you can comment, update and collaborate easily.
• A tree planted in your name — a symbolic gesture marking your commitment and giving something beautiful back to the earth.
• Your ceremony: a true unique experience for you and your guests

One ceremony a day.

I charge per event.

If you wish yo have a hand fasting or candle ceremony for example, please purchase your own materials.

I take BACS payment, a 25% deposit after booking form completed, full balance 5 weeks before the ceremony.